I finally came to a realization today.
I am a list-maker (no, that's not the realization I made...). I make lists all the time. They help me organize my scattered brain, and help me feel like some sort of progress is being made. They keep me sane.
A clean and organized house keeps me sane too. Unfortunately, as hard as I try (ok, maybe I don't try THAT hard), and as many lists as I make, this house just does not stay clean. I'm starting to accept that.
When I was a kid, I remember that our house wasn't always clean. I didn't care. My room was a mess. I would just shove all my clothes and junk in my closet and close the door. I remember doing Saturday chores, and our house was always cleaned up for Sunday, but during the week, we were allowed to make messes. My mom would let us create things, play freely, and even make cookies on our own. My cousin's mom wasn't the same. Her house was very tidy and we were not allowed to open the fridge. I always thought that was weird.
Anyway, I guess after thinking about this recently, I have realized that I need and want to be more like my mom was. I want our kids to feel like they can make messes without me getting mad. I want them to create and learn and have fun in our home. Messes can always be cleaned up.
A few weeks ago, my mom showed me a little cleaning schedule that my Grandma made and used. I tried to implement it. It didn't work. I guess with 4 little kids, there is little extra time in the day for "cleaning".
This is where my realization came in. Instead of making unobtainable lists and charts of how to keep our house clean and organized, maybe I should make a REALISTIC one that I might actually be successful at. Or I
could just scrap the whole idea of making a cleaning list and just clean something when it needs it. Ha. No. That makes me antsy just thinking about it.
So, here is my "realistic cleaning" list (don't judge):
Daily: * kitchen & livingroom tidy at end of day
* 10 min. tidy with the kids before bed
* 1 load of laundry
Monday: * tidy office
* sweep kitchen
Tuesday: * main bathroom sink & toilet
* 1st & 3rd week clean all bathrooms thoroughly
Wednesday: * tidy craft room
* sweep kitchen
* 2nd & 4th week mop kitchen
Thursday: * tidy exercise room
Friday: * tidy laundry room
* all laundry put away
* sweep kitchen
Saturday: * tidy bedrooms
* vacuum living room and hall
* vacuum tv room and down hall
* 1st & 3rd week vacuum all rooms
So, that's that. I'm hoping that this will ease a lot of stress off of me. I won't be feeling like I should be doing something else all the time.
Do you have a cleaning routine? I'm curious how others do it.....